Pope asks sex abuse victims for forgiveness in three-hour meeting07 July 2014 | by Hannah Roberts in Rome
Pope Francis met six victims of clerical sex abuse today to beg forgiveness for the “sacrilegious” crimes committed by the “sons and daughters of the Church who betrayed their mission, who abused innocent persons.”
The Pope told six victims of priestly abuse – two from Britain, two from Germany and two from Ireland – that the Church would “weep” for its “grave sin” and must make amends for the suffering it has caused.
"I ask for the grace to weep, the grace for the Church to weep and make reparation for her sons and daughters who betrayed their mission," he said.
Despite his energetic and wide-ranging reforms, Francis has been accused of not taking concrete measures to show his determination to tackle the child abuse scandal. This was the first time he has met abuse victims since being elected pope 15 months ago.
But in his strongest words on the subject so far, he promised that bishops who fail to report or cover up abuse would be held accountable.
At a Mass at the Domus Sanctae Marthae, the guesthouse Francis has made his residence, he denounced the abuse of minors as “worse than despicable”. He said: “It is like a sacrilegious cult, because these boys and girls had been entrusted to the priestly charism in order to be brought to God.”
In an off-the-cuff homily Pope Francis referred to the moment when Peter weeps after denying Christ. Francis asked for forgiveness and told the survivors that abuse by clergy had been too long hidden and "camouflaged with a complicity that cannot be explained".
He lamented that child sex abuse leaves “life-long scars” and acknowledged that victims have been driven to addiction and even suicide by their experiences.
Francis met and listened to the stories of the six survivors who included three men and three women, the Vatican said.
The “intense” meetings lasted more than three hours – an “exceptional” and “extraordinary” length of time, Vatican spokesman Fr Federico Lombardi said. After the one-to-one meetings, the victims, who asked not to be identified, were visibly moved, he said.
“They described their feelings as serene, touched, happy and grateful. It was a very profound spiritual encounter. The Holy Father listened and tried to understand their suffering in a deep sense. They said they felt that they were listened to, which would helped them continue on their path.”
Previously Francis has compared the abuse of children to “celebrating a Satanic mass”.
Since his election last year Francis has formed a body to help tackle the abuse crisis. The Commission for the Protection of Minors, which included Irish abuse survivor and campaigner Marie Collins, met on Sunday and agreed to add new members primarily from Africa and Asia, the Vatican said.
Today’s meetings follows two damning reports by the UN this year. The UN Committee on the Rights of the Child said the Church had “systematically” adopted policies that allowed priests to rape and molest tens of thousands of children over decades.
The UN Committee against Torture found that the Vatican “resisted mandatory reporting” of child abuse and instead transferred offenders to other dioceses, allowing more abuse to take place.
Read Pope Francis’ full address below:
The scene where Peter sees Jesus emerge after a terrible interrogation… Peter whose eyes meet the gaze of Jesus and weeps… This scene comes to my mind as I look at you, and think of so many men and women, boys and girls. I feel the gaze of Jesus and I ask for the grace to weep, the grace for the Church to weep and make reparation for her sons and daughters who betrayed their mission, who abused innocent persons. Today, I am very grateful to you for having travelled so far to come here.
For some time now I have felt in my heart deep pain and suffering. So much time hidden, camouflaged with a complicity that cannot be explained until someone realised that Jesus was looking and others the same … and they set about to sustain that gaze.
And those few who began to weep have touched our conscience for this crime and grave sin. This is what causes me distress and pain at the fact that some priests and bishops, by sexually abusing minors, violated their innocence and their own priestly vocation. It is something more than despicable actions. It is like a sacrilegious cult, because these boys and girls had been entrusted to the priestly charism in order to be brought to God. And those people sacrificed them to the idol of their own concupiscence. They profane the very image of God in whose likeness we were created. Childhood, as we all know, young hearts, so open and trusting, have their own way of understanding the mysteries of God’s love and are eager to grow in the faith. Today the heart of the Church looks into the eyes of Jesus in these boys and girls and wants to weep; she asks the grace to weep before the execrable acts of abuse which have left life-long scars.
I know that these wounds are a source of deep and often unrelenting emotional and spiritual pain, and even despair. Many of those who have suffered in this way have also sought relief in the path of addiction. Others have experienced difficulties in significant relationships, with parents, spouses and children. Suffering in families has been especially grave, since the damage provoked by abuse affects these vital family relationships.
Some have even had to deal with the terrible tragedy of the death of a loved one by suicide. The deaths of these so beloved children of God weigh upon the heart and my conscience and that of the whole Church. To these families I express my heartfelt love and sorrow. Jesus, tortured and interrogated with passionate hatred, is taken to another place and he looks out. He looks out upon one of his own torturers, the one who denied him, and he makes him weep. Let us implore this grace together with that of making amends.
Sins of clerical sexual abuse against minors have a toxic effect on faith and hope in God. Some of you have held fast to faith, while for others the experience of betrayal and abandonment has led to a weakening of faith in God. Your presence here speaks of the miracle of hope, which prevails against the deepest darkness. Surely it is a sign of God’s mercy that today we have this opportunity to encounter one another, to adore God, to look in one another’s eyes and seek the grace of reconciliation.
Before God and his people I express my sorrow for the sins and grave crimes of clerical sexual abuse committed against you. And I humbly ask forgiveness.
I beg your forgiveness, too, for the sins of omission on the part of Church leaders who did not respond adequately to reports of abuse made by family members, as well as by abuse victims themselves. This led to even greater suffering on the part of those who were abused and it endangered other minors who were at risk.
On the other hand, the courage that you and others have shown by speaking up, by telling the truth, was a service of love, since for us it shed light on a terrible darkness in the life of the Church. There is no place in the Church’s ministry for those who commit these abuses, and I commit myself not to tolerate harm done to a minor by any individual, whether a cleric or not. All bishops must carry out their pastoral ministry with the utmost care in order to help foster the protection of minors, and they will be held accountable.
What Jesus says about those who cause scandal applies to all of us: the millstone and the sea (cf. Mt 18:6).
By the same token we will continue to exercise vigilance in priestly formation. I am counting on the members of the Pontifical Commission for the Protection of Minors, all minors, whatever religion they belong to; they are little flowers which God looks lovingly upon.
I ask this support so as to help me ensure that we develop better policies and procedures in the universal Church for the protection of minors and for the training of church personnel in implementing those policies and procedures. We need to do everything in our power to ensure that these sins have no place in the Church.
Dear brothers and sisters, because we are all members of God’s family, we are called to live lives shaped by mercy. The Lord Jesus, our Saviour, is the supreme example of this; though innocent, he took our sins upon himself on the cross. To be reconciled is the very essence of our shared identity as followers of Jesus Christ. By turning back to him, accompanied by our most holy Mother, who stood sorrowing at the foot of the cross, let us seek the grace of reconciliation with the entire people of God. The loving intercession of Our Lady of Tender Mercy is an unfailing source of help in the process of our healing.
You and all those who were abused by clergy are loved by God. I pray that the remnants of the darkness which touched you may be healed by the embrace of the Child Jesus and that the harm which was done to you will give way to renewed faith and joy.
I am grateful for this meeting. And please pray for me, so that the eyes of my heart will always clearly see the path of merciful love, and that God will grant me the courage to persevere on this path for the good of all children and young people. Jesus comes forth from an unjust trial, from a cruel interrogation and he looks in the eyes of Peter, and Peter weeps. We ask that he look at us and that we allow ourselves to be looked upon and to weep and that he give us the grace to be ashamed, so that, like Peter, 40 days later, we can reply: "You know that I love you"; and hear him say: "go back and feed my sheep" – and I would add – "let no wolf enter the sheepfold".
Translation courtesy of the Vatican
Above: Pope Francis holds his crosier as he celebrates a Mass marking the feast of Sts. Peter and Paul in St. Peter's Basilica at the Vatican on 29 June. Photo: CNS photo/Paul Haring
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