Daniel O’Leary’s sensitive and insightful treatment of an immensely difficult subject must have struck a chord with many people (“Silent grace of forgetting”, 12 October). For me it evoked memories of a much-loved grandmother, who ended her days in the nether world of dementia 50 years ago, incarcerated in a grim nineteenth-century institution.
The slide of a loved one into dementia at any age is a kind of slow bereavement. It brings with it all the emotional pain of a real bereavement, including anger, which all too often can be turned on the innocent victim perceived as the source of the “problem”. Or, equally damaging, it can turn inward, manifesting as depression in the person experiencing the loss. And for carers who are not emotionally
26 October 2013, The Tablet
Challenges of dementia
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