In the context of exploring helpful questions about the role of the laity in the Church, Catherine Pepinster asks how the Church conceives of single people having anything to offer (The Tablet, 24 May). I know the rhetoric and find it confusing. Perhaps I am fortunate, but our parish welcomes people as they are, to become involved or not, regardless of marital status. The only event I am not encouraged to attend is the first Mass of Christmas and that because it's so packed that we're asked to give priority to those with children. Marriage certificates or spouses are not required. I've also been involved in national Church bodies and found them equally open to a single person. Indeed, married people, with or without children, will sometimes comment on the amount of time this national commitment requires and the pressure it can place on their relationships. If anything, not being married has given me a freedom to exercise ministry in the Church in various different ways. On the other hand, I've often been asked if I am a religious or if I'm ordained – as if either would have given me more credibility.
Perhaps The Tablet could find someone to explore critically the "single person in the Church" cliché? I'd love to know if I am fortunate, blind, or just typical!
Jenny Bond, Swinton, Manchester
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